Help me!!!

Wanting help but not asking

Have you ever done something hard for example lifting a heavy box and wanting help but not asking for it hoping for a good samaritan to come by and help you and when that good samaritan comes by and asks "do you need any help?" and then you do something stupid and go "no.. its ok" and they leave but inside ur like dying for that help ^^"

and it also works the other way of being the good samaritan, when you see someone who needs help doing something and you go in your head "hmm... should i help or not? ... yeah i should help :)" so you go help and get rejected ^^" because they either

A: going through what i just talked about
B: they actually don't need you help
C: they just think you're weird and stalking them
D: OF COURSE they want ur help can't you see how hard it is

its a pretty funny dilemma when i think about it :)